Imagine that you are driving by yourself on your way to meeting your future parents-in-law for the very first time, you are meeting your fiancée there. You don’t want to be late, and you really want to make a good impression, so you take a short cut over some back roads when, suddenly, your car engine coughs then dies. You’ve run out of petrol and there is no mobile coverage. You will be an unexplained no-show and it’s your own wretched fault.
If we can picture this, we can come a part of the way to feeling like the five foolish bridesmaids. It’s not as if it were unexpected that they would need to light the lamps, they were after all carrying them!